In order to succeed in professional life, you need not only to work on yourself. You also need to be open to other people. And this requires courage, explains the psychoanalyst and the coach of the SOI Peters.
Relations with work can be compared with a failed novel – they also
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hesitate from love for hatred, from hope for illusions. We also want self -realization and often also encounter a brutal reality.
Go in one’s duties in one’s duties
We want to make sense in work, so that it allow us to express our individuality and harmoniously embeds into our lives without interfering with other interests and connections. It is important to find pleasure in what we do – not so much as a result as in the process itself.
Even if we do not commit anything extraordinary, deep involvement allows you to slightly blur the boundaries of time, strengthen the feeling and endow the work more value. The goal and tasks are secondary here.
In market conditions, when the rigidity of human relations reflects the cruelty of the economy, everyone becomes responsible for bringing a little warmth into these relations. To do this, you need to go a little beyond reasoning about personal performance.
We always define ourselves through dialogue. Sometimes this confrontation, sometimes – consent with people significant for us. In human relations, not ideas and means are important, but by our employees and colleagues – those with whom we work. Changing the place of work, we retain the memories of these meetings.
The most advanced companies today are those that encourage workers to share with each other at all levels, listen to each other. Then everyone feels responsible and motivated. It is absolutely necessary to restore not just faith in yourself – the milking cow of the coaching of the last decades – but also the faith in another, the awareness of the importance of cooperation with others to build joint plans.
The desire to act boldly
It is also necessary to turn to your courage – one of the key engines of self -realization. You need to try to change what can be changed, but understanding that the result does not always depend only on ourselves.
In the old proverb “Who wants, he is looking for opportunities” desire means more than an opportunity, which is already an action. The desire to act boldly and overcome our fear of failures, when difficulties happen in work or we do not receive rewards for the efforts made, is an important component of self -realization. It is courage that allows us to go further, not allowing ourselves to accept what cannot be accepted.